Bedtime Stories

Having had a wonderful weekend frolicking with my husband on the heavenly bed at the Westin, I’m still in the mood for love. There are days like this when I’ll be thinking about nothing else but getting him into bed and …dot… dot… dot…. (as in Mamma Mia). Unfortunately, he is not around. He’s in JB this whole week and I miss him like crazy. Valid reasons to fantasize about him, right?

Do you talk about intimate moments with your husband/spouse to other people? Do you share these things with girlfriends? I don’t usually do that, but with a few close friends, yes, I do confess. People say, we should never discuss our bedroom stories with anyone else, but I think it’s ok. There’s nothing disgraceful about it. In the process, we learn new tricks and tips to make us a better lover to our husband/spouse.

Yesterday, I met up with SW for lunch. It's always nice to meet up with her because she's a funny character and a very dear friend. After that, we went ‘lingerie shopping’. Hee… hee… I usually went alone, but this time, I know there’s another friend who’s also into this! We didn’t buy any, but I saw some nice ones which I could potentially buy when money permits.

I like sexy lingerie. I have many. But of late, I’ve stopped using them because we’re sharing the same bed with a 2 year old. I feel funny wearing it when he’s still awake and I think it’s rather rude, too. Like the other night, I was lying in bed in my teddy when he saw me and said, “Eeee…. Mummy tak pakai shluar!!!”

So, these days, I’ll only put it on when he’s fast asleep, but this usually means it’s after midnight when both of us are already too tired for any strenuous activities. Thus, all my pretty lingerie is just hanging in the cupboard, untouched.

To date, I’ve collected more than 20 I think, in various colors. Red & black are my favourites. It all started as gifts from my girlfriends for my wedding. I like weird ones, but my husband seems to like the simple ones although he doesn't mind seeing me in a more outrageous one. He has bought me a few, too, and he's got quite good taste.

One Valentine’s Day, a couple of years ago, I bought a new one to surprise him on Valentine’s night. It was white in color, baby doll style, with white marabou trimmings (bulu-bulu warna putih) around the edges. I thought it was really sexy!

So that night, as he was lying in bed, I turned down the lights and told him to close his eyes...

“I’ve a surprise for you...”, I said.

“Hmm… what is it?”

“Nantilah dulu…”

Then, I slowly crawled onto bed and sat next to him.

“Now, open your eyes.”

As he opened his eyes, he looked stunned.

“Apa you pakai ni, yang?” , he asked.

“Don’t you like it?”

“No lah... tapi apa bulu2 ni? Macam bulu Budin!" (my cat). And he broke into a giggle.

Ada ke? Bulu kucing dia kata?

I was so embarrassed but I didn’t want to stop. The show must go on! So, I pinned him down and moved my face closer to him. In the process, the bulu-bulu brushed against his face (and I thought that would surely turn him on). Suddenly I heard....

"AAAH CHOOOO!!”

Dia bersin babe! What a turn off! It was supposed to be part of the seductionlah, honey…. How could you not like it?

Anyway, he asked me to take it off and since that night, I’ve never worn that piece again.

There are a few others which I really like but that white furry one is a classic. Every time I teringat that incident, I’d surely laugh.

Does anyone want to try it? I’m willing to lend it to you for free!

It's not exactly like this, but the trimming is.

(And the model is NOT me!)