Thursday, November 27, 2008

This is Unbelievable!

This news was on the front page of Utusan Malaysia this morning: Rahsia Wook bersuami muda.

This lady (the one in the blue selendang) is 106 years old. That's her husband, aged 37, and they've been married for 3 years. He is her husband no. 22.

Wook Kundur dan suami, Mohd Nor Musa

I couldn't believe what I read. And how did she do it?? A 106-year old woman married a 37 year old bachelor. Three years ago, he must be only 34. Oh my!

She said, her secrets are 1) always think positive, 2) be happy and 3) mengurut tubuhnya sendiri. And she also said, these 3 things make me stay young and able to "melayani suaminya dengan baik."

I quote the para from the news article: "Layan suami ada banyak maknanya. Pertama, layan makan minum dan pakaian. Yang itu, saya buat seperti wanita lain yang bersuami. Saya memasak, membasuh dan buat kerja rumah yang lain. Kedua, layan tempat tidurnya. Yang itu tak payah cakap dalam-dalam. Faham-faham sendirilah apa maknanya. Biar saya cakap, yang itupun saya tak abaikan. Berdosa abaikan suami dari segi itu..."

What she said about melayan suami got me thinking. I'm 40 years old and I complain about being tired all the time. She's 106, for heaven sake, and she's still capable??!! Oh my, she's definitely my idol! If at that age she's still capable of satisfying her husband (who is 69 years younger than her!!), I'm sure I can do better than that! Respect, babe!!

This piece of news became a hot topic of conversation over lunch just now. We were guessing, I'm sure nenek ni ada pakai something2 or guna something2. Otherwise, why would a young man like that agree to marry her? What is so special about her?

And to think of what happen in bed? Ewww... it's like making love to your grandmother lah!! Hee.. hee...

But I don't think they all "do it" lah.... there must be other ways to satisfy a husband, right? What's your take on this?

A male colleague was saying, "Kalau my wife tak nak xxx malam ni, I'll tell her, tengok nenek ni! She's 106 years old and she's still at it!" Eh, tercabar jugak rasanya kalau MrNordin kata macam tu kat I!

To read the full article, click this .

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

We were discussing this over b'fast this morning. When came to the part, that this is her 22nd husband, my hubby said "There's something not right!!!"

Ntah lah, kalau I pun tak sanggup kahwin banyak2 kali macam tu...

kay_leeda said...

MrsN,

I salute this Grams lah!! I guess just like the other readers out there, I have this lingering question, "Can still xxx ah?" Must be all those kacip this and jamu that.

Ishh..I don't even want to imagine what goes on when the lights go off.... Auuuuuu :)

the principal said...

Reminds me of my nenek sedara kat Kelantan. Still alive and kicking -at the age of 96.

Pernah kahwin 16x. Most of the marriages not because of love. Lelaki yg sakitkan hati dia would finally marry her. Pernah lembu dia terlepas masuk kebun org, a policeman came & marah her, he finally got married to her for a week. Revenge. My parents told us many creepy stories about her bela sth many many years back...now dah buang...

Waterlily said...

Weii....didn't she just said 'she urut her own badan?' She can still mengurut maa....

MA & Brood said...

I remember reading about their marriage 3 years ago. If I am not mistaken the guy said he married her so that he can take care of her cos she lived alone.


Someone should interview her and write a book on the *improvision* techniques ! Haha...


Bab kawin 22 times, did she outlive all her previous husbands?

MrsNordin said...

Anon,

22x? Yeah, that's a lot of times! But she seems to me like a happy go lucky person and if marriage makes her happy, so be it. I think she's cool!

MrsNordin said...

Kay,

Don't even think about it, ok? Boleh tak lalu makan dibuatnya! I was telling my kids about this over dinner just now and they all went, "EEEWWWW!!"

MrsNordin said...

Principal,

Your grandma pernah kawin 16x? Wow!

Maybe it's true, these marriages may not be all for love. Ada pakai ilmu tu, orang macam ni...

May you live as long as your grandma, girl... and marry as many times as well? Hee... hee...!

MrsNordin said...

Waterlily,

I suppose so. That's what she said!


MA,

I didn't know they've published her marriage story before. That's what I thought at first ~ that he wants to take care of her.

Entah lah, it's too mind boggling to think about this. I'm just gonna sleep over it tonight.

I don't know if she outlived all her previous husbands. Could be yes..

AuntieYan @ Makcik Blogger said...

Salam Mrs. N,

Nenek ni memang hebat!!

Auntie takmo lah kata apa-apa...mungkin yang membuatkan dia begitu sebab dia menghargai kehidupan dan think positive. Sentiasa gumbira, apa lagi dapat suami mudaaaaa ya da da!!!! ;-)

Orang-orang tua dulu-dulu ni memang banyak simpan rahsia kehidupan, banyak petua itu ini yang kita sekarang langsung tak ambil pot...

Errr...kalau Auntie, hak lain tu kira boleh gagah lagi laaaa...ayoo!!! hak "malam-malam" tu yang moskil banyak!!...oppppssss!!!!!

MrsNordin said...

Auntie Yan,

Kalau dapat jumpa nenek ni, minta petua, kan best? Terjamin kebahagian rumah tangga. And after menopause, we don't have to worry lah... masih ada orang yang nak (ni kalau dah tak bersuami lah..). In other words, there's still hope for older women to find a life partner!!

1na said...

MrsN,

16 ker 11 suami yang meninggal. Yang lain hidup

busymum100 said...

MrsN,

My processor jam lah fikir kisah makcik ni! Tak tau apa nk conclude!

MrsNordin said...

Busymum,

Hee.. hee.... I know!!

Aida said...

BJ,

I did not read the newspaper article. The question is what does her kids and gradchildren think about this??? Aren't they taking care of her, that sampai another man young enough to be her cucu married her to "take care of her".

On the other hand, I am glad someone is taking care of her and vice versa (at least she has something to do)... and that she is able to fulfil her duties as a wife.

I pun salute lah this nenek.

mamasita said...

MrsN, sadly I think this chap is an unemployed kampong loafer.I think this old lady have some land assets etc.You knowlah orang kampong selalu ada tanah and some harta turun menurun.I bet you hes playing funny behind her back.Hes just waiting for her to poofed!Makan and duduk free.Tengok je lah muka dia.Kutu kampung mana.Looks like a lazybone.Hes just using the old lady.

IBU said...

Kalah ELizabeth Taylor yewwwww....

Hehehe...Okay what eh? You go Nana!!

Kak Teh said...

I am happy that someone her age has found a companion who will look after her. and I think marriage at that age is not all about sex. There are other ways of being together and be happy.
Afterall, there's no point in hot sizzling sex if there's no companionship, kan?
Let us hope that he looks after her. There's a reason for her to wake up each morning. and for him, there is a purpose in life - to look after someone. Just my two sens.

jabishah said...

She doesnt look a centennial herself. Kan? But it did cross my mind too, why 22? Tapi as long as they are happy kita ni ambik la ikhtibar...

Oklah. I nak mengurut badan sendiri.. ;-)

Anonymous said...

MrsN tumpang lalu,


Mamasita, from what I read when they first got married, Nenek Wook was living alone and was daif. This guy helped her around the house but she feels it's "tak manis" for them to be together without any ties and hence they get married.


I don't think he has any ulterior motives (unless you know something we don't i.e solid proof and not mere presumption based on his looks!)


My guess is if Nenek Wook has a lot of harta, her own kids and cucus would be the first in line to care for her. And if that fella is in for the money or harta, he wouldnt let 3 years pass by before tossing her aside.


My 2 sen lah. Sorry la kalau salah..

farizahb said...

Good story mrsN. That proves to show even old people need love :-)

He he I had to laugh at Waterlily'c comment - I am sure she can urut and that must be some technic. Plus no teeth ma. . .

Pasal "tak manis" duduk serumah, I thought after a certain age, all women can be your muhrim, i.e tak batal wuduk kalau lelaki tersentuh. . .hmm, I have to check on this.

My late greatgrandma was once asked for her hands in marriage when she was in her 70's. Her response was "buat apa aku nak kawin, hidup aku bebas tak payah nak jaga makan minum laki". He he, but the suitor was not in his 30's though. . .

asha said...

i am laughing reading comments here.. kelakar. saya pon heran..tapi good for themlah asalkan bahagia.

Superwomanwannabe said...

hi...
let me be an old romantic and believe that he cares for her for her wisdom and gentleness and - er- immense maturity. Yalah, dah 106 tak mature tak taule!


And for her- i think she knows what she is doing....and dah consider dah possibility of being duped and taken the risk gak,...

as for XXX- ai, at age 40 pun dah tak larat...at age 106 masih adalagi ke keinginan?? Boleh dicontohi....heheheheheh

good for them...

Kmar said...

BJ,

Eerrggh... pil viagra pun boleh ´tergugat´!! Ish..ish... sampai 22 kali kahwin. Something is wrong somewhere with her or is it with ´us´?? Tak logik pulak.

Tak boleh dibayangkan, ´when the nights´ fall... eerggh.. jadi ´rimau jadian´ kejap kot?..he.he.. miauwww.. !!!

Aida said...

MrsN,

Its been a while (well just under a week) since ur last update.... apa cerita???

Ezza Aziz said...

Mrs N
helloooo,gi mana kamu ni! Rumah banjir ka?

Anonymous said...

Abt 22x - She must have been taking things positively and ringanly. Like, ok jom kawin. Nak cerai? OK lets cerai. Takde de nak susah2 hati nangis berjurai airmata. Takde makna nya 'kaulah satu2nya dalam hidupku'

Some more she said she was lawa. Org tengok dia and ajak kawin. So she kawin. Tapi yg eran tu stay married 3 yrs gitu2 je each.

But the intervier pun kata dia ni still lawa. Putih and gebu (waa respect giler 106 still gebu? kalau kita ni dah sag giler gamaknya). So she must have amal some ilmu awet la kot. Ayat2 quran ke mandi mcm2 bunga ke, and urut2 like she said.

She said she suka bangun malam and ngaji, until 9 am and after that dia siap2 buat breakfast and other housework. Yup, reporter kata muka dia bersih berseri. Alis cantik lagi takde serabut2.

Nak kata cool sgt pun tak. Husband dia kata dia suka gak berleter bila hubby gi minum2 ngan kawan2. Tu standard kita2 je gak la.

And hubby said she pun kuat merajuk gak, like, masa wartawan dtg hubby pergi mana ntah. Reporter said, masa nak minum tu, hubby dia huluq jagung rebus she was like, merajuk tanak amik.
Kena pujuk2 dulu then only dia senyum and amik jagung tu .. amboi manjanya opahhh (weehh camana dia makan jagung tu ah?.. gigi kuat lagi ke?)

Now abt the malam. Takkan kedai runcit kampung ada KY kan? Dia masak tepung kanji ke hah? Adoii cant help curious.

Yati, shes my wirawatidol too
:-) kui kui kui

~from the office~

MrsNordin said...

Hi from the office,

I know it's you lah!! Welcome to my blog!

Kelakar aku baca komen engkau. Ya tak ya jugak, eh? Macamana nak makan jagung kalau tak ada gigi?? Hee.. hee...!!

Bab KY Jelly tu, aku tak taulah pulak. Kalau pakai tepung kanji, mau melekat kat situ, babe! Tidaaaak!!!

Yes, she's my idol tu. That means, there's still life and love for us even after menopause! Hooray !!!

MrsNordin said...

Aida/Ezza,

Sorrylah... I've been busy at work. Trying to finish up some outstanding work before I go on my holiday.

Today dah update satu. More will come soon, insyaallah! Thanks for dropping by anyhow.

MrsNordin said...

Kmar,

Harimau Jadian? Jadi macam cerita "Waris Jari Hantu" lah pulak nanti... hee.. hee...

MrsNordin said...

To the rest of the commentators (Farizah, Jabishah, Mamasita, Sya, K.Teh, Ibu...)

Hi! Sorry I've been very quiet. Been busy at work, trying to finish up some outstanding matters before i go off for my holiday next week. Today baru siap, legaaa....

Thanks for dropping by anyway. Jangan serik, ok?

Cheers!

MrsNordin said...

Sorry... tertinggal satu nama. 1na. Thanks for dropping by! Ya... ada cerai mati, ada cerai hidup.

(honestly, I dah tak larat baca cerita dia dalam suratkhabar dah. Dah naik bosan. Enough already!)