Thursday, February 07, 2013

I Am English

I received a phone call from Nizzar’s class teacher the other day. “Puan, anak puan ni tak nak buat kerja. Buku pun tak de!”

Adoi.. and that was on 7 Feb 2013 – a month after school started.

So, I went to the school to meet the teacher.  I kind of expected this would happen because ever since he started schooling, I’ve only seen him doing homework twice. Whenever I asked him, he said “No homework.”, or, “I’ve done it in class.”

Tak kan tak de homework? I tengok budak kelas lain, ada je homework. Tak kan he’s so efficient semua boleh siap in class?

Books – he took them all to school to keep in a locker, he said. So, I really had no clue what he had been doing in class until that day.

When I arrived at the school, I waited for the little rascal outside the pejabat gurubesar. At 1.15pm, I saw him walking towards me smiling, “Hi Mummy!”, he said (as if nothing happened). I told him that I was meeting his teacher because she said you have not been doing your work. He said, “Ok!” (mode: indifferent).

At 1.30pm, the teacher came to see me. Happily, the little rascal introduced me to the teacher, “Mummy, this is my teacher, Puan Suraya!” (mode: happy). Again, as if nothing happened.

The teacher was very nice... She wasn’t angry or anything, she just informed me what my son had been up to.

It seemed he has not been doing any work in class. He just refused to do his work! When teacher told him to copy what was written on the white board, he said, “I don’t want to do! Budak lain semua dah tulis 10-12 pages, buku dia kosong! Satu page pun tak de tulisan! Tak tahu apa dia buat in class!

Activity book – some ada buat, some tak de buat. Some of the text books are missing, the same goes for his exercise books. Aiyo… how lah?? The best thing is, every day I would discover something missing from his pencil box. Pensil hilang, eraser hilang, sharpener hilang.. tapi kerja tak buat! Mana pegi benda2 tu semua??

All I could do was just shook my head in disbelief.

Fortunately, the teacher was quite helpful. She asked me to go to the classroom and look for his books with her. Then she showed me how far the other kids have done in the exercise books and what Nizzar needs to do to catch up. So, I borrowed those books and made photocopies so I know what my son needs to do.

I tell you, those are easy work which he could have easily finished in a snap. But the thing is, he’s just too lazy to do it. I don’t know why he didn’t want to do it. Is it because he doesn’t understand what the teacher said, or because he doesn’t like writing? Or is it because he just doesn’t want to get penalized for doing a poor job?

That was the BM teacher. I also met the English, Maths and Science teachers who all told me the same thing: “Nizzar tak nak buat kerja!” And they all gave me work samples of what he had missed out to do at home.

It was very embarrassing, you know. But one consolation, they said, he’s not the only one. There are other kids who are in the same boat! Hee.. Hee..

When I got home that night, I sat down with him to make sure he did as much as he could. True enough, sekejap je dah siap. My question is, why kat kelas tak nak buat?

So, I’m not surprised if the teacher scolded him in class. Cakap bukan main pandai. That morning when I sent him to school, he told me, “Mummy, I really like school you know?” When I asked why, he said, “I like my class.. my friends.. and I want to get A+ in my work!

Amboi… what a proud moment! At that time, I was truly convinced that my son was very into this school thing. Unfortunately, at 10.30am that same morning, the teacher called me saying my son has not been doing any work! How to get A+ like that?!

But one funny thing happened when we were looking for his books in the classroom. I was with the BM teacher at that time and Nizzar was talking to me in English. The teacher asked me, “Nizzar ni boleh cakap Bahasa Malaysia tak?” I said, “, “Boleh… sikit2..”. “Dia faham tak?”, tanya cikgu tu lagi. “Faham… “ i said. Then, the teacher told me, “Hari tu saya tanya dia, awak ni Melayu ke? Dia jawab: "I am English!!”  

Nizzar… Nizzar… what am I going to do with you..??


Dila Trevelyan Grey said...

Ahahahahaha!! mischievous Nizzar!

DadaIQ said...

That will continues sebab Thaqif pun sampai standard 6 his buku latihan only few pages utilised. Sometimes I wonder dia tak buat kerja ker cikgu tak bagi kerja....but at the end of the day, he made it through. Boys will always be boys...but Nizzar is one mischievous boy :-)

Superwomanwannabe said...

kenapa ye? i pun heran it too easy for him ?

kesian j...hang in there babe..insyallah he will change..but how ah?

one thing though..jangan marah dia jerit jerit...nanti rebel terus!

MrsNordin said...
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MrsNordin said...

Dila, memang panjaaaaaaang akak budak ni!

MrsNordin said...

Dila, I meant AKAL! Leceh lah type guna iPad ni! Asyik typo error saja!

MrsNordin said...

Dada, ya ke?? Dulu Nadim pun selalu guna alasan ni, "No homework, I've finished it in class." Wallahualam... Boys lain lah from girls. The girls dulu tak pernah cakap macam tu kat I bila Tanya pasal homework.

MrsNordin said...

Shila, I wonder why too. It could also be dia takut kena marah kalau buat salah or tak elok. Baik tak payah buat langsung!

No, I gave up on scolding him because it ended with me having a mega headache. I'll do what I can from my end and hopefully he will change.

Thanks for being so concern.. I love u!

nizamohamed said...

"I am English"... Lol! My son and nephew used to say that too! Dealing with boys and their schoolwork memang boleh dapat big headache..been there, done that..actually still doing it..:))

MrsNordin said...

Hi Niza,

All I can say, I'm glad I'm not alone in this.. :)

Kak Teh said...

Mrs N - perhaps he is far too advanced. He would find the work too easy. My son refused to go to school because everything was too easy. At that stage he was already discussing whats in the newspapers with his father, so school work was boring. The class work was dragging him down. But we persisted and asked the teacher to involve him in the activities. and LOL! Unlike your son, my children used to say (and proudly so "We are MALAYU!"

MrsNordin said...

Hi K.Teh!

"I AM MELAYU"! I like that!

Yes, probably school work is too easy (or, lame, as what Nizzar likes to describe it). But cannot lah "not do", isn't it?

This one-week CNY break, i'm determined to make him finish his homework, which I'm glad he already did. :)

Have a nice day, k.Teh!

MA said...

That's one smart boy who knows what he wants. So while the other kids buat kerja, apa dia buat in class?

MrsNordin said...

Hi MA!

Masa cikgu mengajar, dia buat tak tahu je lah! (that's what the teacher told me!)

Dah lama tak dengar khabar you. How have you been? I pun dah lama tak pegi pasar. Now beli barang kat AEON saja... hee.. hee...

MA said...

Salam...I am okay. I pun dah tak pergi ke pasar sangat cos now I tinggal berdua dengan Adik just grab from whichever sempat...:P

Izreen Ismail said...

hey! he's a BBBoy! actually, i have teh same problem with nadya now. claims she understands but in fact... sigh.
btw, have re-started blogging again, so feel free to drop by

MrsNordin said...

Hi Izreen,

Just saw your comment (see how long I've not been blogging!). Unfortunately I can't find your blog. Has it been removed?